Advice and Help
Advice can often be given without wanting it
help can be offered, but you don’t know what you need
I’m Here to help
NAVIGATING THE UNKNOWN
Keep a log/journal/record
What are the helps I need and how to find them
Ask, Ask, Ask
FINANCES
Bills
Donations
Prescriptions and coupons
FAMILY
Respect towards family especially parents/family of spouse
Children/Grandchildren
Keep your circle close and informed
Family & friends can be your best source of help
Holidays
When to take time away
Taking care of yourself and asking for help
PREPARING FOR THE INEVITABLE
When to know it’s time to have the talk
Hospice
Will/Trust
When/if the worst happens, what do I do next/What do I need
Moving Forward, Not On
HEALTH and WELLNESS
Western meds vs holistic…neither is wrong
Nutrition and exercise
MENTAL AWARENESS
Anxiety/Worry/Fear
Don’t live in the what ifs
Live with no regrets
It’s OK to not be OK
Don’t live without hope but don’t live in denial
Why me?
EXTRAS
Being gracious when someone offers advice
You don’t need to apologize for not sharing everything…you share what you/spouse want and are comfortable with
Breadcrumbs (looking for one small thing everyday that is good)
Verses to claim
Social Media/Google (is not your friend)
I’d like to help guide you with simplicity through what could otherwise be a difficult and confusing maze. This list is ongoing as I remember areas I faced. It’s a work in progress and will be geared toward the individuals I am helping.